LHQ performing at age of 7

  Han Quan performing in the Jollies Childcare Centre's Graduation Concert 2003.

 

这世界上或许真的没有所谓的好人，只是坏的程度不一样罢了。

Life is like an expressway, at the right time, I have to make the right turn and exit, else I will continue going to the wrong way...

Life can be tough on you, but you don't have to be so tough on yourself.

"A woman is like a tea bag. You never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water." -- Eleanor Roosevelt

"You Have the Sweetest Burden"

I knew V since 2001, we both like Hello Kitty and have good times sms~ing each other very often, even I was overseas at Korea, Taiwan, Indonesia.  We also have bad times quarreling and never contact each other for few years, and only 3 years ago we were back as friends again.

V has a cute little boy which I used to look after him when he was few months old, and now he is already 6 years old. Time really flies.  Last December, V gave birth to a baby girl.  We both are overjoyed as we can pass our Hello Kitty stuff to her hahaha~

I visited her recently to give her the baby stuff she requested from Indonesia.  She told me baby is really 甜蜜的负担, she bought alot of things for this baby girl, so costly, but couldn't resist. well that's because nothing can stop Mother's love for the baby :) what a sweet burden!

I like this phrase 甜蜜的负担, and I remember I sent it to other mothers-to-be :
- M, a girl who I truthfully care and is delivering this coming July
- my Indonesian client, G's wife who will be due around Dec. I knew G for about 3 years since the Indonesia project started. He got married last July and last month when I was in Jakarta, met up with his wife and he told me that she just got pregnant. Life is going on and on.. how wonderful!

Baby is the sweetest gift that god has given, love it, hug it and protect it as long as you can...
don't be like me, stupidly reject the gift and whenever I think of it, can't forgive myself and regret for my whole life.  So remember ...

 

There's a smile

the world has never seen,
just waiting to be shared.

There's a heart
the world has never known,
just waiting to be loved.

There's a sweetest gift
that's not born yet
just waiting to be yours.

Just Joking - How to weigh yourself

To all my Girl Friends,
Look what I have found !
The correct way to weigh yourself ....

So, I have been doing it wrong all these years !!
Unbelievable!! HaHaHa~

You are just one of their tiny stones

 

 

无论是哪一个人，哪一个党，没有任何一个搞政治的，是无私，是全心全意为人民，为大众着想而服务，全还不是为了自己的利益而“拼搏”。

Recently, heard my colleagues talking about the coming elections, talking about the various rally that they have attended, supporting who and who etc., for me? I just ... silence is peace.

I dislike elections. it is just another time for those clowns to put on circus shows to entertain and amuse those "naive" people. I just don't understand why people willing to waste their precious time, running here and there, willing to stuck in the traffic jam, attending those rally, listening to all those hypocrites blahing~ every minute every second.

Do you believe that the politicians are really so great, really service for the sake of people. No, none of them! No matter which parties, which individuals, all politicians are selfish and only care for their own interests.

No matter which parties win, who get the benefits? definitely not the people...

LHQ's composition : Beautiful Memories

  Han Quan performing at school choir concert   

 

Facebook Games

 

 

Things that I do to let myself not to think of my work, my problem and get out of this cruel reality world :

Listen to CVC program,

Play games in Facebook.

I started playing those games just 3-4 months back, and got addicted to some of them, especially "Country Story". I can plant the crops, water them, harvest them, rear animals. You may notice that all the animals, I will have 2 each, e.g 2 cows, 2 ducks, 2 hens 2 rabbits, as I don't want them to feel lonely like me, they need to have friend/mate to talk, to share their feelings.

 

Country Story

 

 

 

 
Restaurant City

 

 

 

Hotel City

 

 

 

Cafe World

 

 

It could be my own wrong thinking, thus keeping me from God's best. If I will to change my thinking, hope that God can change my life...

Live Like We're and They're Dying

Have you ever heard the "joke" about the three buddies who were talking about death and dying?

If never, let me share with you.

One asked, "When you're in your casket and friends and family are mourning you, what would you like to hear them say about you?"

The first guy says, "I would like to hear them say that I was a great doctor of my time and a great family man."

The second man says, "I would like to hear that I was a wonderful husband and school teacher who made a huge difference in our children of tomorrow."

The last guy says, "I would like to hear them say...LOOK, HE'S MOVING!!!"

This joke led me to listening to a song called "Live Like We're Dying" sung by Kris Allen. The song was originally recorded by Irish pop band The Script as a bonus track in one of their albums. It was written by Mark Sheehan and Danny O'Donoghue of The Script, as well as Andrew Frampton and Steve Kipner, who also produced the song.

I like this part of the song which serve as a powerful reminder to us:

   Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
   If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
   If every second counts on a clock that's ticking 
   Gotta live like we're dying.

   We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to

   Turn it all around or to throw it all away
   We gotta tell them that we love them
   While we got the chance to say
   Gotta live like we're dying

The statistics on death are always very impressive - 100 out of every 100 people living on this planet will eventually die.

Things that we cannot control, we leave them to God.  What we can control is how we approach each and every second that God grants us in a day.

We should truly live like we're dying, or rather live like they're dying.

But, who are they?

They are...our friends, our families, our relatives, our teachers and coaches, our enemies, etc. They are anyone and everyone that God puts in our path...and we need to remember that they are dying. We should tell them that we love them while we got the chance to say and truly live like we're dying, with no regrets.

whoever and wherever you are, you know that

I LOVE YOU !!!

Live Like We're Dying

Sometimes we fall down, can't get back up
We're hiding behind skin that's too tough
How come we don't say I love you enough
Till it's to late, it's not too late

Our hearts are hungry for a food that won't come
And we could make a feast from these crumbs
And we're all staring down the barrel of a gun
So if your life flashed before you,
What would you wish you would've done

Chorus
*
Yeah, we gotta start
Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
Gotta live like we're dying

We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or to throw it all away
We gotta tell them that we love them
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we're dying
*
 
And if your plane fell out of the skies
Who would you call with your last goodbye
Should be so careful who we live out our lives
So when we long for absolution,
There'll no one on the line, yeah

Repeat Chorus *

Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..

We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or to throw it all away
We gotta tell them that we love them
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we're dying

You never know a good thing till it's gone
You never see a crash till it's head on
Why do we think we're right when we're dead wrong
You never know a good thing till it's gone

Repeat Chorus *

Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..

We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or to throw it all away
We gotta tell them that we love them
While we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we're dying..

Juat Joking - Daddy, how was I born?

A little boy goes to his father and asks "Daddy, how was I born?" 

 The father answers, "Well, son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway!

Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo.

Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe.

We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive.

As soon as I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall,

and since it was too late to hit the delete button,

nine months later...

a little Pop-Up appeared that said:  

 

 

'You got Male!'