I was reading this book “when GOD Winks” by SQuire Rushnell, about coincidence, which I find it quite interesting and inspiring. Thus would like to share with all of you. Specially dedicate to one of my friend (if you have a chance to read my post, you know who you are).
Co-in-ci-dence
A sequence of events that although accidental seems to have been planned or arranged.
Wink
To give a signal or express a message.
God Wink
A personal signal or message, directly from a higher power, usually, but not always, in the form of a coincidence.
In one of the Chapters “Trust In Your Dreams and Possibilities”, the author mentioned that all things are possible, it is true only when you believe it, and provided the following 10 step strategy to help mapping the best possible course on the highway to your destiny.
Hereby I briefly list out the 10 Steps to Success:
1. See yourself succeeding!
Formulate a mental picture of yourself being successful. Be as specific as possible. Don’t let it fade. Keep looking at it every day. Your mind will try to complete what it pictures.
2. Cancel negative contractions - - can’t, won’t, don’t!
Whenever a negative contraction comes in mind, immediately cancel it out. Focus on the picture you drew of yourself succeeding and say positively “I can! I will! I do!”
3. Deflate your obstacles and wipe away trouble!
When your obstacles seem fearfully large and looming, let the air out of them. When a problem arises, deal with it in an unemotional rational way. Refuse to give it any more power than it deserves.
4. Don’t be awestruck by others – model them!
Try to learn from and emulate the strengths you see in others. Instead of viewing their accomplishment as a reflection on your lack of achievement, use them as a model for your own success.
5. Find a coach!
Enlist the help of someone with whom you can entrust your self-doubts. By asking them to help you bring your inner ghosts of inferiority to the surface, you will see those doubts and slay them
6. Inventory what’s good about you!
Trust in yourself and the things about you that are desirable and valuable to others. Formulate a nonegoistic yet confident inner love for your own talents and attributes.
7. Perceive yourself as you wish others to perceive you!
Your very own actions will cue others to the perceptions you wish to have them hold of you.
8. Get the “Imp” out of impossible!
Instead, read it as “I’m possible!”. Be getting off your duff and taking small steps, every goal can be reached no matter how difficult it appears.
9. Let go, and let God!
You have a powerful ally in every challenge you face. Loosen the grip on those fears.
10. Look for God Winks!
The highway to what you believe to be your destiny may occasionally seem dark and lonely. But you never be alone. Get going and starting looking for the confirming signs that you are on the right path. You’ll soon see the God Winks.
As you journey to your destiny, you will occasionally find yourself at the crossroads in your career. Might be an unexpected opportunity that boost your career, or something that propels your livelihood to the very brink of disaster.
Regardless of the circumstances, you will feel uncertain. And until your feelings of uncertainty can be converted into certainty, you will go through a period of discomfort.
Start looking for the guideposts that are sure to appear along your path. They will be there. You just need to look for them.
We Make a Living by What we Get
We Make a Life by What we Give
Anonymous
