Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Poor Little Puppy's Love



I can't wait to show you this cute 18sec video.  I laugh and laugh (and seriously laughing aloud) each time I watch it.
The kitty must be not in a good mood that day, so fierce, and poor little puppy, he just wanted to show some love and care to the cat, but ended up being slapped, slapped and slapped.

In reality, we people are facing the same problem...
I have no other intention, just purely wanted to show some care and love to you, but always being face with rejection and avoidance...


 



 

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

The Teacher


 
The Teacher
 
Here's a story which I would like to share with all of you, including the dearest teachers around the world (1st September here is our Teachers' Day).
I have read this story,
both English and Chinese versions, few years ago.  I believe you might have read it before, too.
Stories like this always have a way of putting the right perspective on live and always touches my heart very deeply.
 
Jean Thompson stood in front of her fifth-grade class on the very first day of school in the fall and told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her pupils and said that she loved them all the same, that she would treat them all alike. And that was impossible because there in front of her, slumped in his seat on the third row, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were not kept and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy was unpleasant.

It got to the point during the first few months that she would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then marking the F at the top of the paper biggest of all. Because Teddy was a sullen little boy, no one else seemed to enjoy him, either.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's records and put Teddy's off until last. When she opened his file, she was in for a surprise. His first-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright, inquisitive child with a ready laugh." "He does his work neatly and has good manners...he is a joy to be around."
His second-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His third-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy continues to work hard but his mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class. He is tardy and could become a problem."
By now Mrs. Thompson realized the problem, but Christmas was coming fast. It was all she could do, with the school play and all, until the day before the holidays began and she was suddenly forced to focus on Teddy Stoddard.
Her children brought her presents, all in beautiful ribbon and bright paper, except for Teddy's, which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper of a scissored grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents.
Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of cologne. She stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume behind the other wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed behind just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my mom used to."
After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing, and speaking. Instead, she began to teach children. Jean Thompson paid particular attention to one they all called "Teddy."
As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. On days where there would be an important test, Mrs. Thompson would remember that cologne. By the end of the year he had become one of the smartest children in the class and...well, he had also become the "pet" of the teacher who had once vowed to love all of her children exactly the same.
A year later she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that of all the teachers he'd had in elementary school, she was his favorite. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still his favorite teacher of all time.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson she was still his favorite teacher.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still his favorite teacher, but that now his name was a little longer. The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that Spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering...well, if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the pew usually reserved for the mother of the groom. And guess what, she wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And I bet on that special day, Jean Thompson smelled just like...well, just like the way Teddy remembered his mother smelling on their last Christmas together.
THE MORAL: You never can tell what type of impact you may make on another life by your actions or lack of action. Consider this fact in your venture through life.


 
老师

玛丽安是个国小五年级的老师,她的班上来了一位名叫迪克的转学生。

玛丽安老师第一眼,就很不喜欢迪克,因为他衣服肮脏、头发长长,身上还有一股臭味!

而功课,也是落後一大段,每次批改迪克的作业,心里就有点恼怒-「怎麽这麽笨,涂涂改改、写得乱七八糟!」所以玛丽安老师就用大红的笔,在迪克写错的地方一圈又一圈地画着!

当然,玛丽安老师未曾明说她对迪克的憎恶与讨厌,她只是不断地在作业簿上画着红色的大圈圈,也常在发作业簿时,听到其他同学对迪克的嘲笑与鄙视。

小迪克实在不知道老师为什麽不喜欢他?事实上,老师也不曾找过他谈话,更不曾到他家做家庭访问。

 
一晃眼,耶诞节到了,按照习俗,每个小朋友都会准备一份耶诞礼物给老师。那天,是耶诞节放假前的最後一堂课,小朋友都将包裹好的礼物放在教室里的耶诞树下,等待老师打开。玛丽安老师是「善解人意」的,她每打开一份精美漂亮的礼物时,脸上就露出惊讶、兴奋的表情,班上小朋友的尖叫声,也不断伴随着。

最後,小迪克的礼物,是用普通装三明治的褐色盒子包起来的,外表的包装,一看就很粗俗、简陋,上面还写着「迪克送给玛丽安老师的礼物」字样。当老师拿起这礼物时,全班都静默无声,专注地看老师打开,里面是什麽礼物?盒子一打开,里头有两样东西掉落桌上,一个是缺了几个小钻石的「人造水晶钻石手镯」,另一个,像是在廉价店里买的「只剩半瓶的香水」。

此时,小朋友传来一阵讪笑声...

玛丽安老师很是失望,但她没有勇气看着小迪克,只是顺手将手镯戴上,也挤出一、两滴香水,故意大方地擦在耳後...。没多久,下课铃声响了,小朋友们急着回家度耶诞假期,「明年见罗!」

当所有小朋友都离开教室时,小迪克畏畏缩缩地走到老师旁边,轻轻地说:「老师,你 身上的香水味,好香,就像我妈妈生前的味道一样...而她的手镯,戴在你手上,真的好漂亮,我好高兴你会喜欢它!」说完,一溜烟,就飞奔出教室。

玛丽安老师听了,愣傻了眼,半天说不出话来;她,坐下来,痛哭了一场-在过去的日子,她竟剥夺了一个没有母亲的孩子,应有的关心与照顾。

耶诞节後,玛丽安老师为了弥补良心上的亏欠,就在每天放学後,帮小迪克补习功课。

七年後,玛丽安老师收到迪克的第一封信,写着:
「亲爱的老师,你是第一个知道,我将在下个月以第二名成绩从高中毕业的人...」

再过四年,迪克又给玛丽安老师写第二封信:
「亲爱的老师,我希望让您第一个知道,我将以班上总成绩第一名毕业;四年大学不容易念,但我还是念完了...」

时间飞逝,不久後,迪克又来了第三封信:


「亲爱的老师,从今天开始,我就是『迪克医生』了!我将在七月二十七日结婚,我想请您来参加婚礼,坐在我母亲在该坐的地方!我已经没有亲人了,我父亲在去年已离世...您的学生迪克上」




Tuesday, August 5, 2008

LOVE is in the Air

 
 
Love is in the air and many wedding bells are ringing~. Rii's daughter, Becki in Jul, and Lil'angelwolf's brother, Alex, just few days ago.
Madeline, my special friend
who I always care for, has also decided to pursue her happiness, and
tied the knot with her beloved recently.
Feel so happy for her and all loved ones, thus somehow feel like posting some love quotes to fill the air.

If you wish to view the "10 Tips For Maintaining A Happy Marriage" posted in April 08, just click on the married couple to link you there.
 




May All Loving Couples Live Happily Ever After ...



New Annotation of LOVE 新诠释

L - Listen 聆听
Love is unconditionally, without prejudice, listen to each other’s needs.

爱就是要无条件,无偏见的,倾听对方的需求。

O - Overlook 宽恕
Love is the kind of treatment, to forgive each other’s shortcomings and mistakes, and find out each other’s advantages and strengths.
 
爱就是仁慈的对待,宽恕对方的缺点与错误,并找出对方的优点与长处。

V - Voice 声音
Love is often expressed appreciation and gratitude, sincere encouragement and beautiful praise.
 
爱就是要经常表达欣赏与感激,真诚的鼓励,悦耳的赞美。

E - Effort  努力
Love needs continue efforts to devote more time to irrigate the farmland of love.
 
爱需要不断的努力,付出更多的时间,去灌溉属于爱的良田。






Explanations of Love

(1)
Don't turn your back to love when it's already in front of you.

Don't drive it away from you, because if you do, someday, you'll think again, why you let love flew when it was there next to you.
 
(2)
In Love, think things first over if you're sure about how you feel.
Don't fall too hard not knowing where you will stand, because it will hurt real bad if things don't go the way you want them to be.
 
(3)
It's an irony to know that it takes hours for someone to have guts to say "hi" to the one he likes, days to admire, weeks to miss the person, months to love......but just a blink of an eye to say goodbye...
 
(4)
Go for the person who loves you. 
It is not wrong to love someone who belongs to someone else, but it is much better to love someone who could also love you in return.
 
(5)
Love isn't something we hold, it is something we set free.
It's not something we just do, but it's something we don't imagine to be. Lastly, it's not something we choose, it chooses us.
 
(6)
The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt. The scariest thing about getting hurt is not being able to love again.
The scariest thing about not loving again is being alone forever.

 
(7)
When you follow your heart, worry not where it will lead you, for your heart knows the way.
And if you do get lost or reach a dead end, use your head to lead you back home.

 
(8)
When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes.Instead, you fight for the  mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook excuses.
 
(9)
It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of your pride.

 
(10)
Love is .....
not "It's your fault" ..... but "I'm sorry"

not "Where are you ?" ..... but " I'm here"
not "How could you ?" ..... but "I understand”

not "I wish you were here" ..... but "I'm thankful you are".

 
(11)
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist with our own image.
Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

 
(12)
If a relationship is truly meant for you, your love will find a way tomake it happen, and God will be there to make sure it will stay.
 
(13)
The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very rare chances that you’ll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it, don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again.
 
(14)
We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.
 
(15)
You can't make someone love you, all you have to do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

 



New Fun Annotation of WIFE
W - Washing
I - Ironing

F - Food
E - Entertainment



New Fun Annotation of HUSBAND
H - Housing
U - Understanding
S - Sharing
B - Buying
A - And
N - Never
D - Demanding


 

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Time Understands How Great Love Is


You might have read this long time ago, but I love this sweet story, thus I would like to share it with all my dearest lovely friends.
May you all find your True LOVE, understand and appreciate how Great LOVE is.
 

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; Happiness
, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others......, including Love.
 
One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So, all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed.  She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment.
 
When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.
 
Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat.
 
Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
 
Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you."
 
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
 
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."
 
"I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."

Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
 
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."

Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
 
Then, Love saw Happiness .

Love cried out, "Happiness , please take me with you.
 
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him.

Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. 

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that  helped me?" 

"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?" Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,


"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."




Wednesday, July 30, 2008

I Wish You Enough

 


Would like to share the following story with all my dear friends.
 
 
Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'
 
The daughter replied, 'Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom.'
 
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy, but she welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
 
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.
 
'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' she said.
 
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?' She began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.' She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and she smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we wanted the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
 
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
 
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
 
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
 
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
 
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

 
 
She then began to cry and walked away.

 





Take Time To LIVE and LOVE .....


To all my dear friends and loved ones,
I WISH YOU ENOUGH .....

Thursday, June 19, 2008

The Perfect Heart




The Perfect Heart


I would like to share this touching story with everyone who has a perfect heart...

 
 


One day, a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.

Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, "Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing. The people stared -- how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought?

The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."


"Yes," said the old man, "yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you.  You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.”

“Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"

The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by side.




Wednesday, April 30, 2008

10 Tips For Maintaining A Happy Marriage

 

Just married? or going to get married? Find out how you can strengthen and grow your love – right from the start...


1 To Disagree Lovingly
 
This means being focused, fair and objective when putting across your points. Use an even and non accusatory tone. Avoid personal attacks and finger-pointing – instead, channel your negative energy to constructive problem-solving.
 
2 Define Your Roles And Responsibilities Early On
 
With double-incomes the norm in modern families, the line between ‘his’ and ‘her’ role is thus blurred, and misunderstandings can arise as to who is ‘supposed’ to do what. So prioritise your tasks based on your needs and abilities. Generally, the person who can get the job done more efficiently takes on the task. Be fair and don’t ‘overload’ one spouse.
 


3 Think The Best Of Your Partner
 
A healthy dose of give-and-take can go a long way in avoiding petty arguments. Trust your partner – have faith that he/she has only the best intentions, and will make the right decisions. This is the secret to great marital bliss and fulfilment – when two stand united and committed as one.
 
4 Be Aware Of Gender Differences
 
Couples need to know that they are designed and programmed to play different but complementary roles to each other. They need to acknowledge these differences and accept them instead of trying to change each other at the core.
 
 
5 Open A “Relationship” Bank Account
 
A relationship is like a bank account. When things are well between two people, their ‘account’ grows with regular love ‘deposits’. When things deteriorate, they will be ‘drawing’ on the good feelings in their shared account. Once it is emptied, the relationship is in serious trouble.
 
6 Schedule Exclusive “You And Me” Time
 
Husband-and-wife personal time can be 15 minutes after dinner on a daily basis, complemented by a date night every month, and a longer weekend getaway every half a year, or even plan an annual retreat by checking into a local hotel, minus the kids. Marriage is a “long-term investment” which needs consistent, conscious and careful planning.
 
7 Take An Interest In Your Partner’s Emotional Well Being
 
Many a time, we miss the forest for the trees in our relationships. Most physical ailments are indicators of unresolved emotional issues. Couples must take active interest in each other’s emotional health as it will fortify the physical wellbeing and enhance the marriage.”
 
8 Know Yourself Better
 
If you know what makes you happy, and can communicate this to your spouse, it gives him/her the opportunity to accept and support you for who you really are, and love you for yourself.
 
9 Count To 10 Before You Lash Out In Anger
 
Very often, it is not what you say that will make your partner angry – it is how you say it. So whenever you feel challenged in a situation, step back and count to 10 before continuing the argument. This gives you time to compose yourself and think things through.
 
10 Don’t Go To Bed Angry With Each Other
 
Anger and ill-feeling have a way of festering over time. It’s always advisable to sort out any differences as soon as possible – that is, after both parties have cooled down, and are ready to proceed to the discussion and problem-solving stage.
 


Above are extracted from a magazine “Just Married – Live it. Love it”, published by Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports.